A MEMORIAL SERVICE FOR YOU!
Dear One, thank you for visiting this site, MyMemorial.org.
Take a moment for yourself to grieve the loss of your child or
children and the loss of other relationships, things, issues that have caused you grief.
This memorial service is a special series of audio and videos
I hope will inspire you to let go of your grief and turn your tears into joy.
Remembering those who went to Jesus Before Birth
DISCOVER YOUR HEALER: JESUS CHRIST
Agree with this statement: I BELIEVE YOU ARE MY HEALER
As part of your memorial service, sing from the depth of your heart – “I believe you are my healer!” Give yourself permission to pray, weep, feel this song as you sing from inside your heart the affirmation that you do believe Him, God is your healer.
(* Source: Hillsong You are my Healer )
(*Source: Seas of Crimson – Paul & Hannah McClure(Bethel Church) )
(* Source: Hillsong )
IT IS TIME TO LET GO OF YOUR PAIN
Following your personal prayer time, let go.
Bury or burn or throw into the trash, your Broken Heart and if you have lost a child, I want you to light a candle in memory and honor of your child as you say goodbye.
Other ideas include planting a tree, creating a photo album of your art or photos you used to think about your baby.
Letting go is the inner action that stops the resisting. This, in turn, removes the fear, upset, and tunnel vision. Instantly, you restore your ability to see clearly. You become creative and able to discover solutions you could never have seen before. A good way to see how letting go works is to look at the nature of fear.
Fear is a state of mind and is created by resisting a future event. For example, if you have a fear of losing someone, you are resisting the future event called, “losing the person.” The more you resist losing the person, the bigger your fear.
The bigger your fear, the more you feel threatened. The more you feel threatened, the more you hang on and push the person away. By resisting the future event, you make the fear come true.
To have any fear lose its power, do the opposite of what creates it. Instead of resisting the future event, be willing for the fear to come true – not in your actions, but in your heart. In your actions, do everything you can to make sure it doesn’t happen, but in my heart, be willing.
The moment you become willing for your fear to come true, the fear loses power. You restore your ability to see clearly and become very effective in handling your situation. Solutions appear and this area of life starts clearing up. This is the purpose and opportunity of having a memorial service and letting go.
A WORD FROM HEAVEN
A Special Message from your Father in Heaven Download MP3
PSALM 23 / PSALM 139
Listen to a special Psalm 23 vignette Download MP3
TILLY – a story
Listen to a special abortion focused version of “TILLY” a fictional story from the book called “TILLY” by Frank Peretti
TAKE TIME TO PRAY
Pray Now over the all that you have lost. Prepare to say goodbye to all that has been part of your life until now. If you have been taking our online course or used our workbook, you may have a “Broken Heart” page or you may have been instructed to make a Heritage doll or plant a flower or write a letter to your baby and bury it. If you have anything to “let go” of, then at this time, take a private moment to let go. If you need to bury a letter or tear up your broken heart, do so, and then resume this memorial service.
As you reflect upon all you have experienced, lost, been hurt by, pray allow your tears to flow during this time of of personal prayer.
(*Source: Deep Praying Instrumental YouTube)
TRANSFORM YOUR TEARS OF LOSS & PAIN INTO TEARS OF JOY
Finally, turn your tears into praise as you embrace this final worship, a soaking worship.
(*Source: Jenn Johnson Bethel Church)
(*Source: Elevation Worship – Resurrecting (Live))
(* Source: Hillsong Music )
(*Source: People & Songs Emerging Music)
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Thank you for completing this Memorial Service
Reflect on this message:
1. As you read or hear this message, what does it mean to you?
2. What part of it do you have questions about? Ask God to explain it to you.
3. What should you do now to apply this message to your life?
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MyMemorial © 1987 – present All rights reserved. This memorial service was created as part of the original model of recovery called “Healing the Hurts of Abortion” by Ken Freeman. The Tilly Version was compiled from Frank Peritti’s original 2-sided audio cassette tape published by Focus on the Family with permission for use with this memorial service. Audios are downloadable for personal use only. Do not duplicate or redistribute.